Saturday, May 29, 2010

Granite Gray, Marble White
(In remembrance of fallen servicemen)
The setting is a national cemetery, or the military section of any cemetery,
with the rows of identical crosses or stones; and how they arrived there,
for a lifelong faithful duty, for those whose faithful duty is over
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The Most Difficult Poem I Ever Wrote:


Rows and rows of faithful soldiers, keeping watch until the dawn
Over the beds of finest men and women, that ever nation spawned.

Whence came these quiet soldiers, with steady, unwavering gaze,
Who watch o’er their beloved, through dimming evening haze?

From the bowels of earth and mountainside, from edges of earth’s crust,
The drill, blast, scoop, have yielded them from out a cloud of dust.

Unknown to fellow travelers who journeyed their same road,
With similar wheels and engines to bear their heavy load,



They came! To this green carpet, for years to solemn stand,
To mark the final resting of the choicest of the land.

And now, in ceaseless vigil, with crest of morning dew,
They serve their fallen comrade; and mark a spot beneath the blue.

Both here by accuracy of man, machine, and blast of power,
From that great noise and energy, to this quiet, solemn bower.

One from dark earth to sun, the other from sun to dark earth.
The end of one’s tumultuous watch became the other’s birth.



Yet, we would have it different now, and trade one for the other,
And have again in loving arms: dad, mom, sister, son, or brother.

But no reply from partners, still. No matter loud the tears,
No response from either soldier, in this or other years.

Naught! But quiet example, of service, brave and true.
Their steady gaze and forward press, their gift to me and you.

If one reflects on what they say, with voices now unheard,
They speak their timeless message still, without an uttered word.


In appreciation of the soldiers’ gift to us, which was with great loss to their families.
© Tom B. Bandy
4/23/03 – 4/30/04

Friday, April 30, 2010

Reading Deuteronomy

One of my favorite Old Testament books is Deuteronomy. It seems that God does lots of talking to and through Moses in this book. After I first became a Christian in college, I walked to downtown Atlanta to buy a New American Standard Bible "just like my roommate had". I'd found it readable and understandable (especially compared to some of my GA Tech calculus and chemistry books!!)

There are many things in my NASB that are yellow high-lighted from those early years of Bible reading, verses that are still encouraging to me today. Deut. 3:22 says: "Do not fear them, for the Lord you God is the one fighting for you." I like to know I'm not alone in the tasks I'm given... as a matter of fact, I'm just the helper!

Deut. 4:7 reminded the children of Israel: "For what great nation is there that has a god so near to it as is the lord our God whenever we call on Him?" That's a great country to have your citizenship invested!

The 4th chapter continues with some great reminders: "you will find Him if you search for Him with all your heart..." "He will not fail you..." "To you it was shown that you might know that the Lord, He is God..." "there is no other besides Him."

It is important to remember that when Jesus and the early apostles quoted Scripture, they were always referencing the Old Testament, which they had learned well. It certainly is an encouragement to me!!

Friday, December 25, 2009

Ben McNeal - Finished Well

This is the video that was played at nephew Ben McNeal's Celebration Service, 2 pm Tuesday, December 15th. That would have been his 22nd birthday, and he wanted a PARTY!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otSkYHMSbrE

Ben McNeal Day

A wealthy fellow in NC heard of Ben's illness a few months ago at a prayer meeting, and had this video made about my wife Lisa's nephew in Wake Forest, NC, Ben McNeal. After his mom died of ALS in 1990, his dad Don married my wife's sister Paula. They moved to Wake Forest with oldest son Daniel so that dad Don could work on a degree at Southeastern Seminary.

In 2008, Ben's older Marine brother Daniel was sent home from his 2nd tour in Iraq, having developed the disease. Daniel died in June of 2008, leaving behind a wife and stepson. His decline followed the 6th month pattern of his mom's.

In the summer of 2009, Ben was diagnosed with ALS after beginning to lose muscle control in his left arm... in November he had no function in his left arm or hand, and had lost movement in his right hand. Ben would have been 22 on his birthday December 15th. There was very little that he could do for himself, physically.... BUT: He did become a source of encouragement to those around him!!

Several church and community friends rallied around him, befriended him, and did special events for him. A special "Ben McNeal Day" was held November 5th in Wake Forest, with police escort, a luncheon, high school band, red carpet, and Chic-fil-A for all! That night, Ben and 20 friends were taken by limo to a "Casting Crowns" concert in Raleigh, all with backstage passes to meet the band, and 6 with front row seats...

This is a video that the sponsor of the "Ben McNeal Day" made to be played at the special luncheon. Dad Don speaks first about the effects of ALS, and death of his first wife, and oldest son; then Ben shares.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szgy--GMuF4

Monday, October 12, 2009

Chasing Daylight - McManus

Just had a chance to read a very challenging book by the Pastor of Mosiac Church in Los Angeles. Erwin McManus is known for several of his writings, but this is an especially motivating work. The entire study is from I Samuel 14, and focuses on Jonathan, son of Saul.

The Israelite army is pinned down by their adversaries, the Philistines. (Seems like the Hebrew people are historically in someone's crosshairs.) King Saul was not taking action against the enemy, and his son Jonathan had a moment of inspiration, which he shared with his armor-bearer: "Come, let's go over to the outpost of those uncircumcised fellows. Perhaps the Lord will act in our behalf. None can hinder the Lord from saving, whether by many, or by few." His armor-bearer replied,"Do all that you have in mind. Go ahead; I am with you heart and soul".

McManus points out the Choices available to Jonathan, the Initiative God's work requires, and the Uncertainty involved in adventuring with the Lord. Jonathan's life had an Influence on his companion, which helped both of them take a Risk for God.... something that is always present, if we are going to Advance the kingdom. When we make an Impact for the Lord's work, often a Movement occurs that can lead to the Awakening of God's people. (Okay, I gave you the chapter headings, capitalized!)

Again and again, the author points out the importance of responding in the moment of invitation to be partners with the Lord. One of my favorite quotes in the book reveals the impact we should be having on others: "What you may never see is the number of people who are pulled into God's purpose for their lives through the wind shear of your obedience". Simply, when we follow the Lord, others are challenged and emboldened to answer their individual call, as well.

Currently in our young singles/college group, there are at least 4 young ladies, and 8 young men who are either in studies, training, or have already answered God's call to full-time service. It wasn't necessarily one "going to the altar" and others following.... it was more like what Eugene Petersen refers to as a "long obedience in the same direction" for each of them. They each kept going forward, stepping into ministry opportunities, that led them to their present moving status.

Back to Jonathan, it's possible to read but not see the Risk and Uncertainty evident in these few verses: "Come, let's go.... perhaps the Lord will act..." How's that for an action plan for a church or ministry committee? I want to start trying more often to see opportunities where the Lord may just be waiting for someone to step up, and step into a greater part of His work!

Monday, September 21, 2009

God's Power Flowing

While reading Psalm 29 in The Message version, I saw some very interesting concepts and promises in this praise Psalm. (I was reading this during one of the downpours of rain that had put over 3 inches of water in our rain gauge!) Toward the end, the psalmist speaks of God's throne being above the floodwaters...above and beyond the problems and difficulties of this world.

But what was stunning to me was how it continued: "Above the floodwaters is God's throne from which His power flows..." His power is FLOWING from his throne, it is not static. Now WHERE would His power be GOING, in it's FLOWING? It surely is going in every direction, and it's on the move!

The next phrase refers again to His throne "from which He rules the world". Then is the answer to my question: " God makes His people strong, God gives His people peace". We are the recipients of the flow... not just from the one-time event of the Cross, but from God's throne itself!

Think of the solar winds from our sun, and the different types of rays it gives off. Our sun is so amazingly powerful, that it operates the nature system on the entire planet. And like when God told Moses in Exodus, "You can't see my face and live", we cannot physically tolerate, in these bodies, everything our sun gives off. It is just too powerful, too potent. That's why we have sunscreen! And our atmosphere is always under discussion by environmentalists, lest we destroy it's protective nature. God lets the good stuff through from the sun, and protects us from that which is too powerful for us, in this life.

BUT, one day, we will get to bask in the fullness of the power generating and emanating from the SON!!! Until then, I'm going to be believing that the power from God's throne is on it's way to those of us who believe. It has no other purpose, or destination!!! It is powerful, and it is fine-tuned for just what we need for every moment!!

Friday, August 7, 2009

Walking Through Hard Times

Recently I wrote a note to a friend whose family was going through a difficult time, and looking for some answers.... I found them hard to come by, and here's my reply:

I am so sorry about the trouble for all of you with these difficulties. I have nothing close to an answer. Some words from Job help me: "When He has tried me, I will come forth as gold". But a lot of folks talk about the end chapter, about how God doubled everything and blessed Job greatly. More donkeys, sheep, more stuff. Twice as much. Yes, I agree, I see that.

And I want to Scream: "Yes! But he buried seven!! Somewhere back in the back, there are seven tombstones!!" All I know is what I learned with the difficult decline of my mother-in-law. Somehow, because of all I'd been through, I realized I'd kind of attached to her, and it was as if I had a "real mom" again. And then she slowly faded... ( I just freaked out several times - really freaked - really wierd emotional freaky, that I didn't understand). Now I know it's called secondary trauma.

Anyway, what I learned, I share again and again with folks supporting loved ones: "You feel like every part of you is being crushed, slowly, and that you are being stuffed through an old timey key hole, and there is so little you can do....but there will be graces along the way."

I tell even my college - & young singles guys, so they'll know: "there are some things in life that will never be fixed, except by a good cry". I can't imagine the amount of eyeliner you must have ruined.....

But I do like to listen to this song, it helps me a lot, sometimes. You may prefer to just minimize the video about Columbine and listen to the song, that's what I do. We will continue to pray.

Love,
Tom B
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1uQCLzebZwo&feature=PlayList&p=C396BD50C182BEF6&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=33